Hofstede Tante of culture under such a definition: the so-called "cultural" people in the same environment with the "common psychological procedures. Including the mode of thinking, privacy, the concept of time, polite language, dining customs, behavioral norms, customs, religious beliefs.
Such as Italy attaches great importance to their lunch, often one or two hours to eat slowly taste food, if you ruin their lunch, it will make them very unhappy. Another example is the South American people, keeping an appointment is the order of the day, keep them to do business, test your endurance and temper. Korean contacts, to make use of the advantage of age, if the other party know you are older than he, and how many will give you some facial As for the Japanese, if you can not comply with the time, ready to see their supercilious. Old Indian, tone of voice will some bossy. Muslim countries, people pray five times a day, this moment, the Emperor I drive to not even think to disturb them. Hong Kong people to do things, efficiency, they love the work, minds turn fast, if you endless questioning on them or their product e.g. cheap jewelry, they will not conceal impatient, try to do your homework to deal with before. The list goes on.
Holding the idea of seeking common ground while reserving differences, and might be able to do more with less, and often require a spirit of compromise in order to make things run smoothly.
If you can choose, and I'm still more willing to had Confucianism edification and Japan, Taiwan and the Korean exchanges, the kind of customers want, anxious customer anxious dedication and empathy often people very gratifying, to do business with them things will have a relatively stable process, you do not have to worry too much, wash sauna 冰火两重天. At the same time, you also lies in their trading, not consciously strict demands on themselves, punctuality, punctual, keep its promise. If things do not go well, a reasonable explanation is given with a sincere attitude to win the understanding, but also their own shop next opportunity.
There was a time, I'm thinking of a misunderstanding, that the difference only exist in a different culture, the same language and there is no much scruples encounter the feeling Ben cordial can speak Chinese abroad, so that the trouble is not little joke, also attracted unnecessary trouble, the excessive Taoxintaofei results, resulting in the current heartless sequelae, I also learned that the convergence can not own the proliferation of small feelings too seriously, but also hope that the others meticulous care of it.
Like the slogan rhetoric hours after All men are friends grow up slowly to know how to feather flock together, people in groups, although my race will not narrow to the extent of the heart will be different, at least to understand people with different non-phase plan Social unspoken rules.
Love, friendship, kind of like the wind like fog, like rain, does not attract me, layer mysterious outer yarn wrapped is a great and good soul, the emotion of the kind of steady pass moved made me, I have a Japanese friend know a lot of years, usually between, but each year several special holiday, he will be sent cards, the above personally write a few lines of graceful word, I always receive passive salute. The last time he heard me here earthquake, the first time to ask for my safety, and that moment I realized that this friendship is precious, and Christmas last year, my first preemptive sent fashion jewelry sets.
Friend Yonago and I talk about her literary talent, mature and wise all I expected but beyond that the her wealth, but also so that I secretly envy, jealousy and hatred drops, chat deep things, we will be long-winded . Sentimental it will be like a little woman twitter. Favorite is her give my share practical sense, every long journey before she told me to know, Mother dear to Iverson, Gou wealth, Mo never to forget that what epic town gossip remember send me to Ji Maoxin ha :)
I remember the time to fall in love with Iverson Baba times he missing all day, I asked him where he hesitated for a moment to say, I went to the casino to play. After I asked him, know that I would be angry to God Ma also said that the truth, you can compile a soak in a library day grounds prevarication in the past, he said, I do not want a lie in order to pull away fabricate more lies .
When I know the day he won the money immediately left the casino, but also clearly He also just leave the courage of your convictions, I thought, in this life, on his right, so set :)